It's a strange phenomena that women no longer suspect their husbands like they used to. I'm not saying the bond has become one of deep trust. All that am saying is women don't fear their own sex anymore but feel a kind of paranoia when their husbands/boyfriends display a little more than usual affection for their own kind i.e men.
Few days back past midnight when my husband and me were preparing to call it a day and had just slipped inside the cosy blanket... his cell phone beeped. I pounced on his phone and read the message. It was from a 'guy' named sayan(have never heard of him) and the text read 'goodnight'! I immediately started bludgeoning him with questions, as to who he is, why is he smsing so late at night and why on earth is he saying goodnight. My husband tried to laugh it off saying he must have messaged by mistake, it was meant for Sayan's girlfriend. Somehow i wasn't convinced i asked him to message back and ask why the guy messaged in the first place. To which the next text was more deadly, it read, 'dilam chumu jao ghumu' (give you a kiss, now go off to sleep) I simply sat up in bed by that time having lost all traces of sleepiness. And made my husband call him up finally. Then we were all laughing together at our insecurities... but the truth remains that in today's world even in jest women fear losing their husbands more to men rather than women. But then the time's are strange!
LOL ! Now if that's not a sign of changing times, I don't know what is !
ReplyDeleteBut yes, I must confess that Kaustav's male friends make me more insecure than any of his female friends do (in fact, the latter let me into a lot of his secrets, so I make sure I'm acquainted with all of them) !
Men unable to convince their hetero-manliness? looks like the disharmony is deep.....
ReplyDeletethis is me...
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